On this week’s episode of “I Didn’t Come Here for This,” I’m seriously considering firing my nail tech.
Read More“What kind of woman has a women’s ministry without a daughter?” I often asked God.
Read MoreI was fully tuned into the sermon until the Pastor said: “Some of us are too fragile for God’s glory…We think being “chosen” or “called” is equivalent to receiving special privileges.”
Read MoreFor example, whenever there is a transition and/or shift happening in my life, it’s usually accompanied by other transitions and/or shifts.
Read MoreA piece of me died this month. And it's kind of ironic considering that September marked another year of life, health and strength for me.
Read MoreIn April, I began to feel a shift in my ministry. I noticed that I had begun to attract a different segment of women than I would normally attract.
Read MoreNo matter the instructions, the outcome remained the same: God spoke. I disobeyed. Satan won.
Read MoreIf I obey God and the result of my obedience isn’t welcomed by others, overflowing in success, plentiful in opportunity, abounding in favor, etc., I tell myself, “I must’ve misunderstood God’s instructions.”
Read MoreAs I discussed the situation with family and friends over the next few days, I discovered an open wound that I’ve unknowingly been carrying since 5th grade.
Read MoreBecause I always finish what I start, admitting defeat was very difficult. But it’s better to surrender, retreat, and try again, than to get beat up and still lose the fight.
Read MoreSo, for the first few days of January, I started looking for a word. Every powerful thing I heard, watched or read, I tried to make it my word for the year.
Read MoreThere have even been at least three occasions I’ve told God, “I don’t care what you say. I’m sick of this, I’m saying something today. Enough is enough.”
Read MoreWhenever I’m in a downward spiral about the timeline of my life, the Spirit always confronts me with the question of who am I measuring my timeline against.
Read MoreIt was as if I was having an outer body experience, watching a version of me enjoying a vacation.
Read MoreBlack Friday shopping had been thrilling for me because it was the one time of year I could afford to purchase certain wants and luxuries. I’d wait all year to purchase a TV, a laptop, a phone or some popular kitchen appliance.
Read MoreAlthough my fears were legitimate, I knew I couldn’t allow them to have more influence than the Spirit working through me.
Read MoreThe internal war was so great at times, I thought it would be best to give up. I even practiced the response I would give when our parents asked why I wanted a divorce. I was going to say, “I did it but it didn’t work for us. At least we tried.”
Read MoreWe’re willing to give multiple chances to everyone and everything else but the first time God doesn’t do as expected, we give up on Him.
Read More“Last year had unbelievable, life-changing, gut wrenching changes. Some changes hurt deeply but I was happy to welcome others. Honestly, after the unexpected battles in 2018, I lowered my expectations for 2019.“
Read More“That ‘ol sly devil!”
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